- Psychological Issues
Clara was upset. She’d been seeing the same therapist for three years and didn’t feel like she was getting any better. Furthermore, she didn’t feel respected or as if her counselor believed in her.
Clara suspected he had decided that she was incurable. She thought he wasn’t listening to her, and occasionally suspected her doctor of falling asleep when she was talking. She felt wrong, bewildered, and misunderstood.
She began to get angry at spending all the money. Worst of all, the therapist had begun to give her advice, insisting she follow it. She felt blamed and judged when she reported that his advice didn’t work.
Clara joined a self-help group to deal with her addictions even though her counselor recommended against it. She simply couldn’t understand his point of view on this. After she had actively participated in her self-help group for a while, she began to question the quality of the psychological services she had been receiving. Clara decided to stop going to that counselor after a conversation with some people she trusted in her group.
Finding the help you need is similar to putting the pieces of a jigsaw puzzle together. Whether your need is for yourself, your children, spouse, or entire family, your task is to find the therapist who can best help you. While there is excellent therapy available, there is also poor and abusive therapy. Sometimes, people simply go to the wrong therapist for their personality and needs. In these cases, the puzzle pieces never fit together.
You can get the help you need! One of the most devastating aspects of mental and emotional difficulties is when people begin to feel hopeless. What happens to many people is that they develop a lot of psychological pain and begin to feel different from other people. Sometimes they have had unsuccessful counseling experiences, and even believe that mental health is something they cannot have. Most seriously, you might have lost your vision of yourself as a functioning and contented human being. Don’t give up! Continue to search for the therapist who matches your needs and personality.
One major factor in successful therapy is the relationship that develops between you and your psychotherapist. What you can expect from effective therapy continues our comparison to a puzzle with many pieces. These puzzle pieces are described below.
There are some actions you can take to increase the success of your therapy and continue filling in the pieces of the puzzle.
You can tell a lot about the counselor by how they respond to your questions, comments, feelings and requests. A checklist of questions you may want to ask is listed below. You are entitled to ask any of these questions. If you don’t understand the answers, ask again.
Remember, you can find the help you need. Don’t give up. Just keep looking until you find the right person for you.